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Your Brand is what people say about you when you're not in the room The relationship between personal image and success is about more than just how you look. It encompasses how you carry yourself, communicate and project confidence in various professional environments. As the renowned author Oscar Wilde once said, "You never get a second chance to make a first impression." In the business world, that first impression can be the key to unlocking new opportunities for closing deals. The Power of Perception: Personal image starts with perception . How you dress, speak, and present yourself is often the first point of contact with others. Your image reflects your personal brand- a statement of who you are, your values, and your professionalism. It speaks even before you utter a word.  Your brand is what people say about you when you're not in the room. For leaders and professionals, this is especially important because your image directly influences the narrative others c

  A man's manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait. Image Credit: Freepik It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you'll do things differently - Warren Buffett Are you overlooking the essential life skill of etiquette and unknowingly undermining your relationships, fostering misunderstandings, and limiting your ability to connect effectively and meaningfully with others? In the fast-paced, ever-evolving world we live in, the importance of etiquette often seems to diminish. Yet, as society grows increasingly complex, the role of good manners and proper conduct becomes more crucial. Etiquette is not merely about following a set of archaic rules; it is a tool that can significantly enhance personal growth and boost confidence. Besides, having good manners and practicing good etiquette can help you navigate modern complexities with poise and self-assurance. And I often get asked, "How is etiquette relevant today?

  In today's competitive professional world, making a lasting impression is crucial. While technical skills and knowledge are fundamental, how you present yourself can significantly influence your career trajectory. Elegance and gravitas are powerful attributes that can set you apart in any industry. Here's how you can cultivate these qualities and make your mark: Understand the Essence of Elegance and Gravitas - Elegance is not just about appearance; it's about the way you carry yourself. It encompasses grace, poise, and a refined demeanour. Gravitas, on the other hand, is about depth and substance. It's the quality of having weight and seriousness in your words and actions. Together, these qualities create a powerful combination that commands respect and attention. Develop a Strong Personal Brand - Your personal brand is how you present yourself to the world. It's a combination of your skills, experiences, values, and the way you communicate.  Cultivate Emotiona

The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. -Abert Einstein   "Think Different in Developing Golden Habits" is a paradigm-shifting approach - Steven R. Covey Are you feeling lost in your career journey? Mastering personal positioning can help you define your path, stand out from the crowd, and confidently achieve your goals! Let's explore this empowering skill together.  Unlock your potential with these seven(7) habits to help you achieve your personal positioning.  1. SELF-REFLECTION : Regularly reflect on your values, strengths, and areas for improvement. This habit helps you understand who you are and what you want to achieve.  2. GOAL SETTING : Set clear, achievable goals for yourself, both short-term and long-term. Break them down into smaller, actionable steps to keep yourself motivated and focused.  3. CONTINUOUS LEARNING : Cultivate a habit of lifelong learning by seeking out new knowledge and sk

  Your Personality isn't the first thing people see unless you project it through your style. A pencil skirt is one of the must-have fashion pieces in every woman's wardrobe in the business world. The outfit is perfect to wear from office to business cocktails; a fashionable yet influential item.    Mastering your personal image is essential in a world where first impressions matter more than ever. As an image consultant, I've had the privilege of guiding countless individuals towards presenting themselves with confidence, authenticity, and style. I'll share some tips and insights on how to elevate your image and make a lasting impression.  Understanding Your Personal Style : Before diving into wardrobe overhauls and fashion trends, it's crucial to understand your personal style. Take time to reflect on your lifestyle, preferences, and personality. Are you more classic and timeless, or do you prefer edgy and avant-garde looks? Knowing your style identity will serve

Focusing on one thing and do it really, really well can get you very far Starting a business is a transformative journey that offers countless opportunities for growth, challenges and personal fulfillment. When you make the decision to become your own boss, you're not just creating a business; you're crafting a lifestyle, taking control of your destiny and embracing the entrepreneurial spirit. The Spark of Entrepreneurship Every entrepreneurial journey begins with a spark - an idea, a passion, or a solution to a problem. It's the realisation that you have something valuable to offer, and you're ready to take the leap. Whether you're launching a tech start-up, an ElderCare home, a Creative agency, a Culinary restaurant, a leadership coaching school, or an Art gallery, the foundation lies in the belief that you can make a difference. Crafting Your Vision and Mission Define the purpose of your business by crafting a clear vision and mission. Your vision is the future y

The turning point in the lives of those who succeed usually comes at the moment of some crisis, through which they are introduced to their "other selves." In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the constant motion of the present and the anticipation of the future. However, the concept of "flashback moving forward" invites us to pause, reflect, and glean insights from our past experiences to better navigate the uncharted territories that lie ahead. As we are only 26 days away from the new year, let's explore the profound wisdom that can be gained by looking back, using the lessons of yesterday as a compass for a more purposeful and informed tomorrow. The Power of Reflection : Reflection is a powerful tool that often gets overlooked in our fast-paced lives. It involves consciously looking back on our experiences, and acknowledging both the triumphs and the tribulations. This introspective journey allows us to identify patter