How shall I look?

No matter who we are, what we do, and what we're working on, everybody wants to know how to look good. 

Let's admit that our society is fixated on our looks. And to be honest, knowing how to look good can open doors, it can help you win hearts and it can even help you to make a better career. It's ugly, but it is true. 

Looking Good is about habits. Ask yourself why you want to look good? Make it a habit to do the basic things such as creating an exercise routine, knowing when to trim your beard (for men), eating healthy, and good skincare routine. 

"Good personal appearance isn't dependent upon being beautiful according to the standards set by Hollywood or by the fashion designers. Good personal appearance isn't a matter of personal decoration. It's usually the person who is unsure of himself or herself who has to exaggerate and try to look like someone else". 

All of us want to be attractive. Men and women. The problem is, "How shall I go about it? How can I make the most of my appearance?", you may ask. Sometimes, we are not sure what to do, and we begin to think about people we know who are attractive. We think that if something makes them look well it will do the same for us, too. Some of us may try to imitate our favourite actor or actress without asking first, "Does that type of look fit my personality?"

To be attractive, you have to be yourself- and yourself at your best. Make the most of your personality, and most of your particular physical features. No single type of attractiveness- can possibly be appropriate to all of us, who are so different in physical characteristics and so different in personality. Many may not aware that you are attractive at all.  Beauty often lies in the hearts of the beholder, and to inspire, we would like to share some practical tips that will help you look your best anytime. 

Follow these basic tips to make it seem as though you had the touch of a stylist:

1. DO - Show a little of your individuality and be your GENUINE self.

Stay true to yourself. To be attractive you have to show your genuine self. The reality is that you can reduce stress if you feel comfortable being who you are, rather than who you are not. You will be surprised that being able to express your individuality is what sets you apart. Be unique and proud of it!

2. DO - Be WELL-GROOMED. 

Looking unkempt or disheveled is a quick way to become unpopular. So, whatever else you do, see to it first that you are well-groomed. Employers find that they can't afford to disregard the personal appearances of their employees. The appearance of salesmen and salesgirls influence the customers and the quality of the store. Finding employees who make a pleasant impression on customers means an increase in business. One clue to win a few points here is finding the right hairstyle or haircut for your face shape and lifestyle. 

3. DO - Have your own style in how you DRESS.

What about clothes? Do they make the man? Do they make the woman? Probably the most important thing about clothes is how well they become you. And how appropriate they are to the occasion.  You may like white oxford shirts as a wardrobe essential,  for any style-conscious male, and to be 'always embracing the new and different, someone constantly searching for the best of things. 

Have your own personal style. Are you confused between vintage, classic, sporty, or modern chic? With so many different clothing styles, you may find it difficult to know what suits your personality and body type. Consult an Image Consultant if you need help. Or there are many fashion magazines for both men and women which help you develop good taste, and help you decide how to dress in accordance with your own body type and facial features. Try out different styles until you find the one that you are comfortable wearing. For me, it is a blend of classic, feminine and sporty pieces. 

4. DO - Wear the right COLOUR 

Wearing the right colour instantly makes you more attractive. Attractiveness and confidence are affected by the colour you wear. The secret is to dress for your complexion, but there are certain colours that can make you look better in general. This effect changed how confident you feel, and it shows up on your faces. People who feel more attractive displayed more attractive facial expressions, and this will make him or her more attractive to others. When a man or woman is wearing the wrong colour, which makes them less attractive, he or she will feel less confident and therefore look less attractive. Selecting hues that work with your complexion is often easier said than done. You need to determine whether your skin is pale, medium/olive, or dark, to know which colours work for you and should form the core of your wardrobe.  If you are not sure of your own judgment on these matters, there are ways to get expert advice.

5. DO - Finishing touch: The right ACCESSORIES that can elevate your look

If you like bags to do the talking, it is time to think about what and which styles work with your wardrobe and your personality. From delicate bracelets to elegant timepieces, a simple wristwatch can make a statement and make a subtle difference to your finishing look. 

With positive thinking of the world, looking forward to borders opening up post covid19 if you are looking ahead to be out and about town again, now is the time to start thinking of what works with your wardrobe and your style. What accessories are you thinking of trying out and do you have one go-to accessory that works with everything? 

Final Words: 

Lastly, can you look good at any age? Absolutely, 100% yes! There are tons of men and women who look good despite their age. You can take a leaf out of some of the men women around to see how they age gracefully and look good at the same time. It all comes down to your choice and the way you feel about yourself in the first place. 

Confidence and Courage to embrace the way you look are undeniably some of the most important things to remember when you want to look good. 

Need an Image Consultant for 2021 to restyle your look?  We help our clients project a winning image in all aspects, from developing and projecting the desired image to including social etiquette and self-presentation. 

Leave a comment below and share with us your broad experiences where you feel your appearance is affecting your life and career if any.   

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