Relationship with Yourself sets the Tone of a Successful Individual.

 

Relationship with Yourself sets the Tone for every other Relationship you have

The right mindset and confidence will reflect in your face. Everyone can benefit from spending a little time on themselves. When deciding on a course of self-improvement, it is as well to get your facts straight and do some research into what you need.

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On Reflection:

Self-discovery could change your lives! It is also about self-care and it reflects you to everyone you come into contact with.

Learn to become your own self-critic but only when you know you can do something to improve yourself. It's a wise woman who can determine what she needs, carry it out, then forget about herself. Self-care is the background to your life, the backup that makes you feel better. and want to be better. The youth have the time to experiment, but they often end up they stick to it for too long. Nothing is more ageing than an an-out-of-date style of yourself.

So as like your wardrobe, once in a while, it is a good idea to take a long critical look at yourself in a full-length mirror. Are those occasional comforting self-indulgence cakes and candies adding up to bumps and bulges? Sex gender normally makes a woman more aware of her body and keener to smooth, de-fuzz, and slim it down. But even if you are happily single and enjoying your life, it is useful for your self-care to check out your good and bad points which impact your figure concern, one by one, and aim to take some action for your own self-esteem or self-image enhancement. Any male who has self-care would also do the same so, it could be applicable to the opposite sex or male gender.

Your Personality:

Your Personality- What makes you 'you' - is your INDIVIDUALITY. Whatever your feelings about yourself, it is recommendable to re-examine your own feelings once in a while. If you keep adapting yourself to fit in with other people's opinions and ideas you could end up like a heavily retouched or edited photograph. 

Of course, becoming self-assured and confident doesn't mean that you should become self-centered or selfish, and egotistical. But along your journey of self-discovery, you might drag out of the cupboard some of the taken-for-granted notions of your life and think about what you really like or dislike, want or don't want. 

Confidence is being yourself, feeling at home in your space, meeting others halfway but keeping a sense of proportion, and most of all, accepting the truth about yourself. 

Face Facts:

The happiest people are probably those who can come to terms with the way they are- who gain self-fulfillment by realizing their own personal potential, not from trying to achieve some impractical distant goal.

On the other hand, it pays to be realistic about your not-so-good points. Very tall girls who have rejoiced in their height, instead of 'stooping' and trying to hide it, have evolved a dashing marvellous style that is the envy of everyone else. A distinctive mole, lots of freckles, a gap between your front teeth - all can become part of your own personal attraction. All of us have something beautiful and by cherishing it and making the most of it, we can reinforce the idea that we are beautiful. It is the all-over image that counts, not the component parts. But if the component parts with which we are dissatisfied can be corrected, enhanced, or simply controlled, it may make all the difference to our elf-confidence.

Successful people are a success because they will do the things a failure will not

Secrets of a Highly Successful Individual: 

A study was made on 1,500 outstanding achievers in nearly every walk of life, by an associate professor, Charles Garfield, at the University of California in San Francisco at the Peak Performance Center of its own research institute. He finds they all have certain traits that are innate but which can be learned by anyone.

This doesn't mean that everyone can become a company president or win an Olympic medal. or become a superstar in their field of work or career. It does mean that all of us can learn about our innate qualities/traits to make more of the gifts we have.

If you can dream it, you can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with a dream and a mouse. 

                                                              -Walt Disney

Knowing Yourself 

In social settings, when people you know, you are more extroverted. When people you don't know, you are reserved and observant. In these situations, you could be altering your behaviour so as to fit in, or be included and 'chosen'. The problem is if continuously do so, you can't always remember who it is you are supposed to be accepted. Are you aware of someone you know with these characteristics?

Through knowing yourself by self-discovery, you will be more comfortable in your own skin, and you become more authentic.... in other words, you will begin to like yourself better as you learn about your natural self and know who you really are, your personality, your traits, your communication style, your human potential and more.

Many people like the idea of being a King or famous, but few are ready to take on the responsibilities that accompany these roles. To be a successful individual in any chosen role or career is to start building relationships with Yourself and get to know yourself.

Are you seeking Refinement to elevate?

If you are someone who is seeking a life of fulfillment, reaching your optimal potential, loving what you do, love to dress well, believe in Style over Trends, aspired trailblazer to 'look good, feel good (physically and mentally), ready to a journey of life-long continuous learning for self-growth, and appreciate being elevated to a 'Life Well Lived', focusing on what is necessary over essentials, this is the place for you. Or if you feel the need to rediscover your Personality Profile, Colour and Style Personality, or Personal Positioning, do reach out to Refinement Society to discuss your personal and life goal. 

In the midst of endemic, where you are considering a "Corporate Make-Over" to tune up from your business operations to sagging employee satisfaction and/or customer retention, talk to us to re-focus on a new mindset to tune the trend around.

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Stay Positive and Discover the diamond in you.

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This blog post contains the idea and opinions of the author. The information provided in this post is written solely to provide motivation and for educational purposes to our readers.